Find death doulas, funeral homes, grief counselors, estate attorneys, and more in one searchable place.
Whether you're planning ahead for yourself, caring for someone at the end of life, or navigating loss right now, dedyet connects you to providers who specialize in exactly what you need. Free, searchable and easy to use.
We've got you covered: Providers across 15 categories and counting.
End of life arrangements, expected or not, are overwhelming, confusing and difficult to sort through. Most of us don't consider our options until a time when we should be focused on grieving, not countless internet searches and uncomfortable phone calls.
That's where we come in — one simple directory where you can find everything you're looking for (and some you didn't know you needed).
We believe a healthy relationship with mortality helps create a fuller life and should start before someone is actively dying.
Dedyet was born out of the complexity that comes with end of life. I'm Evanne, and I founded dedyet to help others better navigate funerals, caretaking and their own mortality so we can all focus on living.
My interest in this space began when I picked up a copy of "Smoke Gets in Your Eyes" by Caitlin Doughty, which led me down a rabbit hole of sky funerals, green burials, and human composting. I have since read many more books (recommendations coming soon), attended community events, and met so many amazing people in this space. I completed the INELDA Death Doula Training in 2021, but my real crash course came in the form of losing my dad a few years later.
Suddenly, the logistics and admin took over, and my brother and I were engulfed in searching for a funeral home in a city that wasn't our own, looking up estate liquidators, scheduling donations, and making countless phone calls to the DMV, lawyers in two states, and real estate agents.
Grief took a back seat.
It shouldn't be this hard. So I built dedyet to bring these resources together so you can focus on what matters.
Take a look around. Whatever brings you here, I hope this resource sparks your curiosity and helps you plan accordingly.
There's so much more in store, and I'm excited to share it with you as we grow.
Are you a death doula, funeral home, crematorium, grief counselor, estate attorney, celebrant, or another provider serving the NY/NJ/CT area (or offering virtual services anywhere)? We'd love to include you.
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Last updated: September 2026.